Tuesday, December 6, 2011

End of the Line....

This quarter has been the longest three months of my life. As I look back on everything I’m realizing that I’ve lost much more than I’ve gained and I am seriously suffering the consequences for that  right now. School was supposed to be an uplifting experience and bring a little bit of light into a dormant life but it seems as though it has just added fuel to the flame of disaster.

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Beautiful Brazil

Are you contemplating or already started planning a trip to Brazil? Brazil is such vast country that you may easily get overwhelmed by the numerous attractions it offers. Where to go? What to do? What to see? These 10 tips are sure to provide helpful planning information to get you started in putting together your trip.




1.Driver’s Licence: If you’re going to drive, you need an international drivers licence, or a translated and authorized copy of your local licence. A translation is only valid for 6 months. If your international licence doesn’t have Portuguese, it has to be translated too.
2.Learn Portuguese: Brazilians are very friendly, open and hospitable people. Being able to speak and understand at least basic Portuguese (preferably a little more than that), will bring great enhancement to your trip. Especially in the remote, non touristic and poorer areas, you will NOT find people who speak anything else than Portuguese

3.Make sure you have enough cash with you. Lots of remote places don’t accept cards.

4.Hitchhikers : The safest thing to do is to NOT pick them up. Especially in poorer areas, LOTS of people are trying to get a free ride. I myself – trusting my gut feeling – picked up hitchhikers on 4 occasions. A little old man on a jungle road, An elderly woman on her way to her family, a worker on his way home, and another elderly lady with a little boy. All  these people were really nice and gave me good advice about the places that I was planning to go to. If you trust your gut feeling, go for it, if you don’t, better not pick up anybody

5.Avoid the bigger roads. They are loaded with trucks. BIG ONES, up to 30m and 60 tons. These things are fast, loaded to the maximum (probably over capacity in some cases), loaded badly, causing them to tip over to one side and a lot of them drive dangerously. They will overtake at high speeds with poor or no visibility on oncoming traffic or block the entire road on ascents when they are supposed to keep to the right side….
6.Business Hours. Banks are open 10am - 4pm., Monday through Friday in most of the country. Most malls are open from Monday to Saturday, 10am-10pm. Some malls in São Paulo and Rio de Janeiro are open on Sundays, from noon to 8pm. Most stores in Brazil are open 9am-6:30pm. on weekdays, and 9am-1pm on Saturdays

7.Dress. Brazilians tend to dress casually outside workplace. Most restaurants do not require a tie or sport jacket, however, a few fancy clubs and restaurants do. If you plan to travel to São Paulo, you will encounter a cosmopolitan city, where fashion matters.
8.No Hand Gestures . In most countries in the world the ‘OK’ symbol made using one hand means just that – OK. In fact, in all South American countries that speak Spanish, the OK sign is OK. Here in Brazil it means something much much worse and is shockingly offensive.Don’t do it or you may just get a punch in the nose or worse.

9.Leave your jewelery at home. Don’t wear any jewellery, cheap or expensive. What you really don’t want is to attract some attention by those who’re looking for potential targets.

10.Always travel in groups. Avoid wondering around in places you’ve never been before, particularly in the night. Use local transport rather than walk in the night. Cabs are a bit risky too and you should avoid them unless you speak some Portuguese. Either you will end up paying too much money or you don’t know where you will end up. Personally, I prefer buses to cabs as most Brazilians do

These tips along with a handy English to Portuguese dictionary should help you and your travel mates have a safe and enjoyable trip to Brazil.

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Sleeping Angel...

                   Throughout this Quarter I have been a complete wreck and I’m having a hard time determining the reason for it all. I’m beginning to believe that my lack of spending time with her is starting to take a toll on me and beginning to wear down on my soul. For about a month and a half now I’ve been doing work and school five days a week and it’s been seriously cutting into our “Daddy and me time” but the funny thing is I don’t think she even notices because I’ve been balancing out the time pretty well with letting her stay up a little later and spending my entire off days with her so a part of me thinks that everything is cool.





                     The other part of me however is wondering how long I can keep up this charade before my angel realizes what’s going on around her and starts asking questions. Although she’s only 3 y/o she is extremely smart and doesn’t miss much from accidental curse words to the proper way to change-out a Blue-Ray in the PS3 she doesn’t miss a thing. 5 more weeks is all I have left and school wise things seem to be going pretty good though my health and sanity have suffered quite a bit deep down I know it will all be worth it in the end.


                            I often wonder where I would be if I didn’t have here at all and all that comes to mind is an empty bottle of tequila and a scuffed up pair of Forces. Chris Rock once said that his only job in life was to keep his daughter off the pole and I sympathize with this in every possible way. By completing school getting my degree and a better career I will accomplish this goal indeed and then some. Only 5 more weeks left then its “our” time again , maybe a vacation or maybe just sitting at the house but either way it will be “our” time. So as she sleeps and I do my undesired homework I’m filled with a sense of pride and accomplishment knowing that as long as I’m around she will never have a need to be on the pole and she will always be tucked into her favorite set of sheets.

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Missed opportunity or Time well spent????

Last night was Halloween and instead of spending the night Trick or Treating with my daughter I was stuck in my Keyboarding class stroking away at the keys. As I sat in class I began to think of all of the fun she was potentially having and how much I was dreading my next "timed writing". No amount of candy or caffeine products could compare to the joy of being with her as she ran from door to door with her Kool-Aid smile collecting candy.